Court Advocacy

One of the most unique aspects of our agency is our Community-Based Rape Crisis Center. Unlike many places where survivors must go to a hospital for a forensic exam, we offer a dedicated, trauma-informed space where trained professionals perform these exams. We welcome and serve individuals 13 and older for sexual assault forensic exams. This environment is designed to be more comforting and less clinical, helping survivors feel safer and more in control.

What is a Protective Order?

A protective order—sometimes called a “restraining order”—is a legal document issued by a court to help protect individuals from being harassed, threatened, or abused. In Oklahoma, protective orders can:

• Prohibit contact from the offending individual.
• Require the offender to stay away from the survivor’s home, work, or school.
• Provide various other safeguards, depending on each unique situation.

According to the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation (OSBI), thousands of protective orders are filed each year in our state, underscoring how commonly they are used to help address domestic violence, sexual violence, and stalking. In 2020 alone, more than 28,000 protective orders were issued in Oklahoma [1].

How We Can Help

1. Understanding the Process
Our trained court advocates will explain each step, from filing the initial petition at the courthouse to understanding the terms of the order and what to expect at your hearing. This clarity can ease much of the anxiety that comes with legal proceedings.

2. Emotional and Logistical Support
Going to court can be intimidating, especially if you have to face the person who harmed you. Our advocates can accompany you, offering a supportive presence in the courtroom. This not only helps reduce stress but also ensures you have someone on your side to help you stay informed and empowered.

3. Paperwork Assistance
Filling out the paperwork for a protective order can be complicated. We will guide you through the necessary forms, ensuring that you understand each question and that your documentation is as complete as possible. While we do not provide legal counsel, we can connect you to Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma or other trusted attorneys if you need further legal advice.

4. Safety Planning
Beyond the courtroom, we work with you to develop a personalized safety plan. Protective orders are one tool, but your overall safety may also involve secure housing, financial resources, counseling, and other supportive services.

Why Having an Advocate Matters

• Reduced Stress and Confusion: The legal system often has its own language and protocols. Having an advocate translate legal jargon and outline next steps can help you feel more confident.
  
• Emotional Support: Clients report feeling less isolated and more hopeful when they have someone physically and emotionally present during court proceedings.
  
• Connection to Resources: Our advocates can direct you to community resources such as counseling, emergency shelters, children’s services, and more. If you need legal representation, we can refer you to Legal Aid or other reputable legal services.
  
• Empowerment: Knowing your rights and understanding the process can shift the balance of power back to you, an essential step toward healing and future well-being.

Important Note

We are not attorneys and cannot offer legal advice. However, we collaborate with organizations such as Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma to ensure you have access to appropriate legal assistance if you need it. Our role is to provide emotional support, information, and advocacy so you can make informed decisions every step of the way.

Contact Us

If you are considering a protective order or have questions about the process, you do not have to face it alone.

Phone: (405) 310-3131

We believe in your right to safety, dignity, choice, and hope. Our Court Advocacy Services are here to help you navigate the legal process confidently and with compassionate support at every step. You deserve to feel safe and empowered—let us stand beside you.